This is probably the most important entry I will ever write, so please read with care, with attention, and with an open mind.

The more that we trust in Hashem,

The more we trust in Hashem’s timing,

The less stressed we will feel.

The less we will feel the need to control.

The less uptight we will feel.

It is all about building that connection with Hashem and what better time to do that than when it’s being tested? How can we become closer to Hashem we can potentially feel so separated? What better time to find and grab that anchor than when in a storm?

Take the time now to work on that close relationship with Hashem. The point of marriage is to build and to connect so show Hashem you’re ready for that and take those first steps. Bring him into your single life and you will be more easily able to integrate Him into married life.

In the moments it feels most difficult you can say out loud, in a small whisper, or a loud heartfelt cry, "Hashem this is hard, but I trust in You and Your timing."

Say it in your own words.

Say it on the way to work. Say it before you close your eyes at night.

Say it once or a hundred times a day.

Say it as many times as you need.

It is so important to remember that we have short-sighted vision, but Hashem sees it all.

Let that sink in.

We see only the immediate future (and not even the full gamut of it), yet Hashem can view our entire life span.

Don’t you want to connect your will to His will?

Don't you rather He decide when it's best for you to come into contact with your other half? Who would know better than Him?

For he sees every factor and facet and we only see in such a limited way.

So open your mind and heart. Talk to Hashem. Go with the flow and free fall into a cushion of Emunah.

The more we let go of when we envision ourselves getting married and the more instead invite Hashem into the process and hand the reigns over to him, the more we can find peace within ourselves.

Learn Living Emunah, attend classes on Bitachon, speak to people, and strengthen that faith. There is nothing more vital than that.

If I still have your attention, I’d like to share a thought on the importance of timing.

There’s the concept of Shabbos which is beautiful and amazing and very much existent, yet can we decide to take in Shabbos on a Tuesday and call it Shabbos? No.

Shabbos enters and exists at specified times and there are no two ways about it.

I believe that even though it's challenging if we really try and keep strong and hold onto Hashem. If we flood our life with affirmative messages, then we will see revealed good by all of us very soon.