Hi, Chavie Horn here. Thank you for visiting my site. This is a platform in which I share thoughts, ideas, and experiences to help you through the frum process of dating.

Your Handy Dandy Guide to The Glorious World of Frum Dating

Chapter 1- Bursting the Bubble

Dating? But I just got home

Chapter 2- Meeting Strangers

Who are these people? Whose the Shadchan?

Chapter 3- The Carefully Crafted Piece of Paper

What should and does my resume say about me?

Chapter 4- You got a Call?

From whom? What did they say? Which area code?

Chapter 5- The messenger

Who should represent me?

Chapter 6- The research

A boy said yes?! Now what?

Chapter 7- The First Date

What do you wear? What do you do? And most of all, what do you say?

Your parents meet the boy

Sometimes your parents will meet the boy. What’s that like?

Chapter 8- The First Date cont.

It’s all put into action in this 3 hour adventure

Chapter 9- The After math

What did he say? What does she say? What do I say?

Chapter 10- The Second Date

Expectations and Reality

Chapter 11- Digging Deep

What do I need to know

Chapter 12- Passing the Threshold

Getting past date three means something

Chapter 13- Overthinking

How do I navigate?

Chapter 14- Checking In

The Shadchan wants to speak to me?!

Chapter 15- Meeting the parents

What a milestone

Chapter 16- The Proposal

You probably know when its coming

Chapter 17- L’Chaim/Engagement Party

You do you

Chapter 18- Planning and more Planning

Try and keep your head

Chapter 19- The Wedding

The moment you are waiting for... and with G-d’s help you’ll reach it


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